Thursday, January 04, 2007

I's married now!!!

Sort of. Effective January 1st, 2007 our domestic partnership gave us all of the same legal rights as a married couple on the state level. Every single one, from what I understand. It is still called Domestic Partnership but the fact that we are given every single same right is a huge step.
Originally Michelle and I registered so that we could put Michelle on my insurance at work. Romantic, don't you think? *grin*
I have made no secret about the fact that I do not want to get married. I don't believe that a piece of paper is what makes a relationship legitimate and I think society has made a mockery of marriage. Britney Spears can have a shotgun wedding in Vegas with a man she doesn't love but two people of the same sex can not do the same simply because they are not the opposite sex. Why on earth would I want to participate in something so shallow as marriage.
That said, now that I am legally "married", I'm okay with it. Probably because I didn't have to do anything and we didn't have to make a big deal about it. We just woke up on the 1st and were suddenly married. All you breeders should be so lucky. *snort*
So California is finally starting to catch up with some of the other states. MA laws allow gay couples to marry and to call it marriage. CT, VT and NJ now have Civil Unions. All the same rights as married couples with the exception of calling it marriage. HI has some law called "Reciprocal Beneficiary Relationships" which I think is sort of like domestic partnership with limited rights.
Canada recognizes same sex marriage and Mexico City recently passed laws recognizing same sex couples. Israel is starting to get on board as well. In Israel, they will recognize same sex marriages that were performed outside of their country. But there is some law that makes it illegal for them to perform the unions.
So feel free to send wedding gifts to us. :)

44 Comments:

Blogger momma said...

Hell.No.

I refuse to believe you are married until I see pictures of you in a wedding dress. Until then, no gifts.

1/04/2007 8:07 AM  
Blogger Glowie said...

Congrats.

Poor Britney.

1/04/2007 8:18 AM  
Blogger Coco said...

Hooray for you! Where do I send the blender?

*starts humming 'Here Come the Brides'*

1/04/2007 8:45 AM  
Blogger Schnookie said...

WOOHOO! Where are you registered?

*throws rice*

1/04/2007 9:03 AM  
Blogger Schnookie said...

"Shit howdy, that's great news"

*smirk*

1/04/2007 9:04 AM  
Blogger Breezy said...

*snort* at Momma, I wanna see that pic too.

*smooch*

1/04/2007 9:12 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

Don't hold your breath waiting for a picture of me in a wedding dress. *snort*

Oh lord, i have created a Monster with Nookie. She has stolen my "shit howdy" phrase.

1/04/2007 9:18 AM  
Blogger Schnookie said...

LOL. I couldn't resist.

1/04/2007 9:20 AM  
Blogger Zombs said...

So now you can have sex! yay!

1/04/2007 9:26 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

I thought that marriage killed the sex.

1/04/2007 9:28 AM  
Blogger Jen said...

Congrats, Mrs. Michelle!
*sniff sniff* I always cry at weddings. Can I have the bouquet?

But seriously, I am so happy for you that you are finally getting all of the rights you deserve. *swalt*

1/04/2007 9:55 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

*snort* Mrs. Michelle. *snort* I'll tell her you said that. She'll like that. *giggle*

1/04/2007 9:57 AM  
Blogger Schnookie said...

Actually, shouldn't it be Mrs. Poor Poor Michelle? *grin*

1/04/2007 10:26 AM  
Blogger arkie said...

Oh, there *will* be a picture of you in a wedding dress. *rubs hands together gleefully and giggles like a maniac* You will have to wait until I get home tonight, but I will produce a photo of you in a wedding dress.

Congrats.

And this breeder would not want to wake up and find herself "married".

1/04/2007 10:56 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

*snort* My first thought after reading about the wedding dress was "Oh, I bet Arkie will create one"
*snort*

1/04/2007 10:57 AM  
Blogger arkie said...

I can't wait to get home. I don't know how I will be able to contain myself for 4 hours.

1/04/2007 10:59 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

LMAO. Ya goof.

1/04/2007 11:02 AM  
Blogger arkie said...

You have no idea. I'm sitting here giggling, just thinking about it. If it wasn't my busy time at work, I would get "sick" and have to leave now so I could go get started.

1/04/2007 11:08 AM  
Blogger arkie said...

Question: Traditional white, with veil, etc, or no?

1/04/2007 11:09 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

LOL. You're cracking me up.

Oh, and BTW, Monsty still has not responded to my email. I told you that she lags.

1/04/2007 11:09 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

I am a traditional, virginal type. so of course white. And yes, a veil please. It hides my face. *grin*

1/04/2007 11:10 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

and I want to be skinny and have nice boobs.

1/04/2007 11:11 AM  
Blogger kim (weltek) said...

YAY! Congrats! You should really buy Michelle a slice of wedding cake.

My transexual coworker just went through and interesting insurance debacle. She and her partner married, as man and wife, years ago. He became a she, but they were still legally married. Because our stupid state passed a marriage ammendment defining it as "between a man and a woman," her health insurance was in jeopardy. She had to go through medical exams and tons of paperwork. It was so intrusive. Yesterday, she found out her partner would still be covered under her health insurance. Yay!

1/04/2007 11:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think the most important question here is "Where is the cake?"

Congratulations! I'll bet your favorite part was removing the garter. Or is it gartar? Shit I really don't know, and I don't feel like looking it up.

1/04/2007 11:43 AM  
Blogger mm said...

well damnit, does this mean that Michelle is off the market? *kicks ground*


Big Congrats, Carey!

*gets in line for the money damnce with bride*

1/04/2007 11:44 AM  
Blogger kim (weltek) said...

No, Boo, it B-o-u-r-b-a-n.

1/04/2007 11:46 AM  
Blogger Bravie said...

Cake? I get cake? Well shit howdy. If I had known that I would have gotten married a long time ago.

1/04/2007 11:58 AM  
Blogger kim (weltek) said...

Notice three of us Bloggest Losers were the ones to bring up cake.

1/04/2007 12:05 PM  
Blogger mm said...

Ack! That should have read "dance" and not "damnce".

1/04/2007 12:12 PM  
Blogger Puffy said...

Are you going to move to Israel?

1/04/2007 12:26 PM  
Blogger Bravie said...

I might if they have good cake.

1/04/2007 12:28 PM  
Blogger kim (weltek) said...

Hey, you'll never forget your anniversary. Celebrating it every year with horns and confetti is a bit strange, though.

1/04/2007 12:45 PM  
Blogger Jennifer said...

I'm so happy to hear this! I'm still annoyed at my own home state which so overwhelmingly passed the amendment defining marriage as "one man, one woman," but I'm very glad that other states are wisening up.

1/04/2007 1:22 PM  
Blogger arkie said...

Pffft. You're already skinny with nice boobs.

1/04/2007 1:46 PM  
Blogger Swami said...

*throws rice* It's a good thing you didn't sleep in. Who knows what else they might have done to you? (For you?)

Maybe Coco will make you one of those Canadian fruitcake wedding cakes if you ask her nicely.

1/04/2007 2:25 PM  
Blogger yvonne said...

Of course you know what your wedding present from me will be, right?

An IKEA gift card.

*snort*

1/04/2007 3:38 PM  
Blogger lights said...

*rushes out to buy a toaster for the happy couple*

*throws confetti all over blog*

*waits for Arkie's wedding pictures*

1/04/2007 3:40 PM  
Blogger Bravie said...

augie? Youre response seriously almost made me pee myself. (I realize that most peeps do not understand the humor in this but trust me it is hilarious)

*sits and waits for other states to follow and waits for all my wedding gifts*
*grin*
Lightsy, toaster ovens can only be earned. It says so in the handbook. and unless I can get you to makeout with me, I can't accept the toaster oven. *points to handbook* See? It says so right there.

1/04/2007 3:44 PM  
Blogger Dave Clapper said...

Arkie, don't forget the poot-stains on the dress.

1/04/2007 4:20 PM  
Blogger mtw said...

*trusts bravie*
*laughs at augie's joke*

Congrats!!!

1/04/2007 5:05 PM  
Blogger lights said...

I'm pretty sure it says in the "married" handbook that we're not allowed to makeout with each other. *confused*

What to do, what to do? *giggle*

I hate to break rules but maybe just this once.

1/04/2007 5:23 PM  
Blogger momma said...

*snort*

*giggle*

*pee in pants laughter*

1/04/2007 8:28 PM  
Blogger arkie said...

The pictures of Bravie in a wedding dress have been posted on my blog. *grin*
She makes such a beautiful bride. *smooch*

1/04/2007 8:28 PM  
Blogger gothmog said...

congrats! Couldn't have happened to a nicer fellow.

You need to check your red wavy flag thing for your wedding present.....

1/06/2007 1:05 AM  

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